I've read a great deal about wealth management and have tried to incorporate key gleanings from that reading into my approach to life.
Of course, the key to a "successful" life entails far more than having a fat purse ... but it certainly helps to have the wherewithal to pursue a "rich life".
Here is a cogent summary of the habits of wealthy people who have accumulated wealth through their own efforts:
The Top 10 Habits of Millionaires
There is a common thread to many of the habits; namely, "to invest in one's self". It's perhaps the single most important thing a person can do.
The Importance of Learning How to Invest
In our early years, my wife and I lived off one salary - the other one was banked. Our salaries were modest, but we reached the point where we were able to put 50 percent down on the purchase of our first (and only) house. We paid it off a little more than 3 years later.
Our biggest mistake thereafter, I call it the "lost decade and a half", was not to invest our savings in a meaningful way. Instead, I relied on others and parked most of our grubstake in mutual funds. Further, we lessened our savings rate.
Then, things changed significantly: a new government came in and implemented massive cuts to the civil service where I worked. I had the misery of giving notice to 35 percent of my staff. There was no assurance that I would not be next as the axe continued to fall.
I resolved from that point forward to gain a measure of financial independence: to be in a position to have the resources to retrain and start a business of my own in the event of a firing. From 2:00 to 4:00 AM every day, I worked on learning how to invest. After 8 years, I was making more from that than from my wages - this despite several promotions.
At first, I hated the activity, but soon I became captivated by the thrill of learning new things, the psychology of investing, and the "hunt" for potential investments.
In so-called "retirement" from the wage economy, I still find great satisfaction in investing activity. Further, it has enabled us to pursue many new interests and to assist family members in starting new businesses.
One of the best things you can do for your kids is to give them a strong set of values to live by. Helicopter parenting is an anathema: more than ever, kids will require resilience and a strong sense of self in order to cope with a world which is changing rapidly. And I would argue that the skill sets and approaches which sustained parents through their early years may be insufficient to meet the challenges of the "new world".
This said, values are enduring - it's just that kids will have work out how they are expressed for themselves.
One of the key values is embedding in one's kids, the approach of being successful financially, hence this post.